Lights of Love Service
Thursday 7th December 
Royal Garrison Church of All Saints, Aldershot

We had a lovely service at the church, where all babies gone too soon were remembered.
The church is beautiful and was a perfect setting for the lovely songs and touching readings.

Our Babies names were read out and hung on the tree, with candles lit for each angel in a fitting memorial.   

Our annual Lights of Love services are held in December at venues across the UK for parents, families and friends to remember their babies who have died. The services are family friendly evenings of traditional carols, reading and musical performances.


Christmas Fair
Saturday 2nd December, St Peters Church Hall,  Frimley.

Thank you to all those who came along to our Christmas Craft fair.
There were lots of lovely stalls selling amazing gifts and trinkets, along with painting and crafts for the kids to do and Miller`s Ark farm.
We had a great turn out, with lots of fun, and frolics. Even the animals got in on the fun with the goat deciding a stroll round the car park was needed, and the pig chasing the ducks round their pen!! 

Thanks to everyone`s generosity we raised a fabulous £885!!!- which will go towards helping support bereaved parents, providing memory boxes to the 3 hospitals we cover and helping train medical teams in dealing with parents at very difficult times.


Wave of Light Service

Sunday 15th October
Baby Memorial Garden, Aldershot Crematorium

Sunday 15th October marked  International Pregnancy and Infant Loss day, and the end of Baby Loss Awareness week, and across the globe there were held Wave of Light services, where candles and lights were lit in memory of all the babies taken too soon. 

Farnborough Sands held our own service, for the second year at our Baby Memorial Garden.

The service was held at 6.45pm and at 7pm candles were lit by all who attended in memory of theirs and all babies lost at any stage of pregnancy or after birth. 
There were some beautiful poems read by some brave parents, and Laura read the names of all the babies whose parents attended the service, and a few who couldn`t.

The readings and service were followed by hot chocolate and biscuits for those that stayed a while to reflect and admire the poignancy and beauty of the garden in candle light.
We had a lovely turn out, with many parents, and siblings of all the angel babies remembering them with love.
Many thanks to Aldershot Crematorium for opening their gates to allow us to hold this service here for the second year, and to all those who attended and helped make the evening a lovely service and memorial to our angels. 

Table Top Sale

posted 29 Mar 2015, 11:09 by Laura Drummond

Many thanks to everyone who came along to support Farnborough Sands at our Table Top Sale. We raised £420 which is enough to provide another 22 sets of parents with a memory box when their baby dies.

Thank you so much to all who helped out, could not have done it without you xx

Farnborough Sands Christmas Craft Afternoon

posted 10 Nov 2014, 16:45 by Laura Drummond

A creative and fun packed afternoon for Sands families to come and make some Christmassy crafts!! There will be cakes and refreshments available. All ages welcome from tots to young adults!! This is not for fundraising but for families to meet up and have some Christmassy fun. We will ask for a donation on the day to cover some costs.
This is being held at St Peters Church Hall, Frimley Green Road, Frimley, Camberley, GU16 7AQ from 2pm till 5pm.
Come along and make some Christmas memories of your lost baby.

Christmas Service of Remembrance - 13th December 2014

posted 12 Oct 2014, 12:45 by Laura Drummond

This is our first Christmas Remembrance service and I hope you will join us to remember and celebrate your baby's memory at such a difficult time of year. Anyone who has lost a baby at any stage during pregnancy or after the baby was born is welcome to attend. Even if your loss was long ago. There will be a chance to have your baby's name read out and to light a candle. This will be an adults only or older children service to keep distractions to a minimum. We will be holding a family activities afternoon on a different date.
The service will be held at the Holy Trinity Church, Fernhill Road, Hawley, Bracknell Forest, GU17 9BN at 3pm.
For any further details please email

Memorial Service 2014

posted 12 May 2014, 03:19 by Laura Drummond

Thank you to all that attended the baby loss memorial service. It was a shame that the organist was not able to make it but I thought everyone sang beautifully. For those who could not attend your babies names have been read out and remembered. Remember the service is always held on the second Sunday in May. Everyone welcome, friends, relatives of bereaved parents and supporters of Farnborough Sands. Always loved, never forgotten xx

Thank you to all that attended todays baby loss memorial service. It was a shame that the organist was not able to make it but I thought everyone sang beautifully. For those who could not attend your babies names have been read out and remembered. Always loved, never forgotten xx

Chris Thomas's Triumph at Reading Marathon!!

posted 4 Mar 2014, 10:25 by Laura Drummond

Massive congratulations to Chris on his amazing Reading Half Marathon achievement today in a male baby bump. Noah will be so proud of his Daddy. You can still donate  Also the Thomas's go live,please spare a minute to listen to their radio interview. Chris is @1:34:45,Helen @2:13:00. They've nearly raised £2.5k for SANDS!

Running for Farnborough Sands

posted 15 Feb 2014, 08:53 by Laura Drummond

Our very own Farnborough Sands member Chris Thomas running for Sands in memory of his son Noah and also in memory of Susie and Russell Black's daughter Isabelle by running with their combined weight in the form of a baby bump!! Please share and get Chris nearer to his donation goal!!

Please support Chris Thomas in his bid to reach his donation target.

Baby Loss Awareness Week

posted 9 Oct 2013, 16:09 by Laura Drummond

This week is Baby Loss Awareness Week in the UK. Each year, from 9-15 October, bereaved parents can commemorate their babies’ all-too-brief lives, knowing that thousands of parents elsewhere in the world will be doing the same. Baby Loss Awareness Week also provides a crucial opportunity for people to talk openly about this subject, so that awareness is raised across society and bereaved mums and dads feel less alone, and less isolated by their grief.

October 15 is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day across the world. We would like to invite you to take part in the global 'Wave of Light'. Simply light a candle at 7pm and leave it burning for at least 1 hour to join us in remembering all babies that have died during pregnancy, at, during or after birth. This can be done individually or in a group, at home or in a communal space. Wherever you do this, you will be joining a global wave of light in memory of all the babies who lit up our lives for such a short time.

Farnborough Sands Christmas online auction!

posted 8 Nov 2012, 17:47 by Laura Drummond

Farnborough Sands Christmas online AUCTION!!! Please go to and page one is the auction! There are dinners, Links of London fantastic items, Bungee jump, Guildford Flames hockey tickets, cricket collectible memorabilia, acupuncture sessions and much much more! Please pass the word to all your contacts! Bids will be emailed - the instructions are on the page! Please send the contact info for the auction to all your friends and contacts! The auction ends in time to get the winning bidders their item before Christmas!! HAPPY BIDDING!

Big Yellow Self Storage Supporting Farnborough Sands

posted 3 Apr 2012, 05:21 by Olly Cruickshank

Big Yellow Self Storage is supporting Farnborough Sands by kindly donating a room.

Currently this is being used for the April Tabletop sale, suggestions welcome for future usage!

Table Top Sale

posted 31 Mar 2012, 01:58 by Olly Cruickshank   [ updated 31 Mar 2012, 02:00 ]

Due to the massive response to our plea for donations to raise money for Farnborough Sands, we have upgraded our car boot sale to a table top sale! Please invite family, friends and neighbours to come along and grab a bargain!! For more information please contact Laura Kirk.

Event Information

Date:        21st April
Time:       12pm til 3pm
Location:  Ash Victoria Hall

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